Archive for the ‘Chris’ Category

1981-04-11

Saturday, April 11th, 1981

I hope this life sustains Rose.
This one of coming and going
this love for a week and then
wait for two.

I think of Chris and I’m always
amazed at my thoughts
small person with eyes
of such potential and trust

Loving Danny grew on me
like the ivy that overcame the church
but Chris has been a storm
ever since Rose and I gave him his life.

I hope she holds on
all my life, or hers.
Its the only feeling I have
that runs deeper
than the joy of living
and its pleasures
amen.

I’ve been so reckless with it
and I’ve been so lucky.

gallagher
11 apr 1981
Vancouver, B.C.

— Copyright 1965-2008 by Dennis Gallagher —

1981-11-29 – Chris didn’t know

Sunday, November 29th, 1981

         Our lives are made fragile by the things that we love
           and the years our love brings to bear.
         Chris lay sleeping as I prepared to leave
           and I stood and stared thru the bars of his crib.
         He loves me to tickle him and his eyes shine as he squeals
           and he can say 'Da-dee' and does, again and again.


         Some place from far back inside of me
           as I looked watching him sleep
         I thought of how fragile are all of our lives.
           The patterns of security, comfort and association we erect
         against these wars and illnesses, crimes and disasters...
           none of them are less real, because we love.


         Its just that my perception
           of how life and its vagaries comes together
         with our love and its attachments
           has sharpened with age.
         As the blunders of youth's mania
           and other distortions fall away
         and I see the 'human condition' more,
           and I cringe at how naked we stand.


         But Chris didn't know ... even that I was leaving
           his blankets and thumb and baby fat warmth
              defined the world he knows.


                                    gallagher
                                    29 Nov 1981
                                    LAX, Vancouver bound


— Copyright 1965-2008 by Dennis Gallagher —

1982-10-08 My Sons

Friday, October 8th, 1982

My Sons

My sons a man could be proud of
they say something of the best of Rose and I
with a cut and line, a form
that my eye never fails to fall on, pleased.

Danny, the sensitive blond and popular artist of us
how well he’s formed thru the caldron
of our marriage years and evolutions

The man begins to show in him
as firm and as deep as I could wish it
and I want to stand back and applaud
and give him room and respect to grow in

And Chris, blocky intense little Chris
affectionate and secure, pushy and proud
his potential and promise fill him with presence
he radiates ‘I am a good boy’, without any doubts

My sons
they make me prouder than anything else
I’ve ever done.

10-08-82

Vancouver, B.C.

— Copyright 1965-2008 by Dennis Gallagher —